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On this best self help advice page we’ll be seeing the whole idea of changing our reality, by utilizing deliberate and conscious reality creation methods, from the perspective of someone, anyone, who already knows how it’s done and why it works in the way that it does.
Even if you don’t yet consciously know how to change your experience of reality, by believing and acting as if you do know eventually you will know. You’ll know because the nature of belief is to imagine what you want first, before seeing the evidence of what you want, to fake it until you make it!
By reading through this best self help advice page you’ll see the idea holistically. And then perhaps you’ll be able to join the dots of knowledge, and as you do so the picture will become clearer for you. Following is a bite-sized guide to many of the key elements that are helpful for changing our life experience.
'You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the
circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself.
That is something you have charge of.' Jim Rohn – 1930 - 2009
Even though at deeper levels of our being we all know the truth about the nature of existence, if from our current physical perspective we’re not consciously aware of what we know, then we’re unable to act upon what we know. Thus, conscious awareness is the key to a deliberate physical life experience.Knowing about the deeper levels of our being, empowers us to create a reality that fits our preference, rather than merely going along with the general consensus idea of what reality is and what life’s about. By knowing, we change our belief about reality and consequently our experience of life changes
After reading or listening to a variety of material containing and outlining many details about spiritual reality, metaphysics and the nature of existence, you might have some questions. One of your questions may be:
How does knowing who we really are and what
life really is affect my everyday life experience?
That’s a valid and useful question; at least I believe it is. Therefore, the rest of this page is devoted to highlighting many of the possible answers to that question, from the perspective of people who know.
Now that we know that the world around us is a reflection of our thoughts and beliefs, we no longer cling to the false idea that seeing is believing. We know that the Universal mirror is a reflection of our vibrational state of being, and thus we use it as a gauge and an indicator of our state.
Knowing that this particular reality is driven by our beliefs, we no longer anxiously look to the reflection for things that we know must first be created in our mind. And we know from experience that in this space-time reality, time is needed prior to the manifestation of our thoughts and beliefs, so we wait in joy.
We know that, like any mirror, the Universal mirror only has the ability to reflect back to us who we’re being in any moment. So we no longer push against the reflections of our life experience, as expressed in the Universal mirror; instead we change our vibrational state, by changing our mind.
We know that all change begins within our mind and not in the reflection that we’re seeing in the mirror of our life. And we’ve realized that the others in our life are there to reflect back to us who we’re being in every moment. And based upon those reflections we know what to change about ourselves in order to see a different reflection in the mirror.
We look to the mirror for evidence of our thoughts and beliefs, but because we know that, from this perspective, time is necessary to see evidence of the internal change of our mind. We don’t complain, become impatient or panic, we simply relax, have fun and enjoy our life...
Whilst knowing that because the Universal mirror is a reflection and that because we’ve done the mental work, ultimately the reflection must and so will eventually change. Gone are the days of worrying and doubting and oscillating back and forth between being positive and being negative.
We know that our mind consists of memories, thoughts and beliefs and that these are precursors to feeling. Without some kind of psychological response, we know we can’t feel anything in an emotional sense. And we know that, together, these things comprise our vibrational state of being.
Knowing that we were born into a reality of self-imposed limitation and that along our journey we’ve most likely picked up on some of other people’s false ideas and false truths, we now choose to release them, along with all inherited emotional baggage. After all, someone else's truth may not be truth!
'Have expectancy – not expectations. Expectancy is the emotional
that, (a.) you have changed, and therefore, (b.) your physical reality will follow suit. Expectations is placing upon the change that your physical reality will go through the method that your ego thinks should be the way it should change, to represent the change you have made within yourself.' Bashar – www.bashar.org
Because we know that our own higher self or higher mind is truly our best guide, we do our best to act upon the intuition, inspiration and emotional guidance that it’s feeding back to us. And if we knowingly fail to act upon these things, we forgive ourselves and look for more feedback.
Our feelings are like a barometer that tells us what’s coming next into our experience. Good feelings indicate that we’re on track to receiving the positive experiences, which we’ve indicated that we do want through our thoughts, words and actions. The same, but opposite, is true for our negative feelings.
New desires will always be popping into our conscious awareness, and once we have the object of our desire, a new desire will be born within us. Our only work is to stay connected to the vibration of our higher self, by staying in the now, so that we’ll receive the guidance that’s in the now.
The one thing that we can be assured of in our quest of fulfilling our desires is the journey - in between - desires. Knowing that our higher self has everything worked out in our best interest, and will bring all things we desire to us in perfect timing, we relax, have fun and enjoy our journey through life.
Our ability to believe in the life that we’ve imagined is the driving force that brings that life experience to us. As a child we looked up to the top diving board at the swimming pool and saw others diving from it. Even though we believed we could also do it, we hesitated on the ladder.
Slowly, we inched our way up the ladder to the top board. Worry and doubt were there as our companions. Eventually we overcame our fear and took the plunge and it felt good. Within an hour of our first dive, now we were running up the ladder and our companions were nowhere to be seen.
In a new imagined reality, breathing water is normal. Although we believe it, because others are doing it, our belief must be so strong that all traces of worry, fear and doubt must be absent. So as we submerge our body and breathe in the water we have faith that we’ll survive.
That’s how strong our belief must be. And once we begin to breathe the water and we realize that in this version of reality breathing water is normal, then we know that it is and that’s simply how it’s done. Once we know how it’s done, we move beyond belief and into knowing.
Knowing that any reality we experience is actually energy vibrating at different frequencies which are translated by our brain is an extremely powerful place to be. Knowing this we realize that any and every reality is an illusion, in terms of it not being any more real than any other reality.
Gone are the days of trying to change our reality because we know that it’s impossible to change any reality. We know that in order to experience a more positive reality with preferred circumstances, we must raise our vibrational frequency and vibrate as a higher state of being.
Appreciate the miracle of physical Reality!
Once we’ve inquired deeply into the nature of reality, we realize because we’ve learned, which means we’ve remembered, that the physical reality all around us is, really, nothing more than our brain’s estimation of vibrating energy. So we know that reality is not real as in the typical meaning of real.If there was such a thing as a hard and solid reality, which was real in the sense that we normally think of as real, that would be miraculous enough. However, because our experience of physical reality seems and feels so real, the fact that it’s an illusion makes it even more miraculous
Knowing that the parallel reality illusion in front of you was called to you by you, through your thoughts, definitions and beliefs and then activated by you through your negative or positive feelings is a place of real power.
It’s a powerful place to be because from that place of
knowing, you know that you created your experience of it and therefore,
you know that within the idea of probabilities, you can certainly create any other preferred experience within any
other parallel reality illusion.
Knowing that life on earth is akin to a dream and that we’re waking up within the dream, we’re fully self-empowered to steer our life in any direction we choose to. We know that because we create our own version of reality, we know that whatever we imagine must and so will BE our experience.
We know that our reality, our experience of our dream
is determined by our thoughts, definitions, beliefs and feelings, so we
pay close attention to and adjust our thoughts, knowing that, over time,
we will create the life of our preference, our dream life experience. For instance, this self help test defines Earth 2.0 reality.
'Most people believe the mind to be a mirror, more or less
accurately reflecting the world outside them, not realizing on
the contrary that the mind is itself the principal element
of creation.' Rabindranath Tagore - 1861 – 1941
Most people want success, but the success that they believe they want is based upon what someone else has or what another has achieved. And while that is an expression of a certain level of success; everyone on this planet has already achieved the greatest success, just by being here.Between 50 million to 100 million sperm cells wanted to create life expression in this reality at the exact time and place that you wanted to. Of all of those sperm cells, which must be extensions (ideas or thought forms) of non-physical beings, you are the one sperm cell who succeeded! How’s that for success
The old social-economic political and financial systems are corrupt beyond repair. And as such, there is no place for them in the new reality that we’re bringing into focus at this time. Knowing this, we disregard all rhetoric and lies from those who allegedly know what’s best for us, but who don’t really know.
So we no longer place our faith or our trust in any old-style political party or governing entity. As new cooperative systems emerge, we support and trust in the systems that resonate with us. We get to decide which systems will be beneficial to the new earth, not the corrupt old guard.
We’ve been pretending that our life isn’t OK for so long, that we’ve forgotten that we’re only pretending. Now we know that our experience of life and physical reality are illusion of our own choosing, we can now pretend that life and our experience of physical reality is all good.We already know that we create our own experience of reality, so we imagine, we pretend and we believe in whatever we’re pretending. And then, before long, fiction becomes fact and the physical reality all around us and our life experience really is all good
By not caring about what others in our life experience, such as our children and our friends, are creating for themselves, we’re allowing them to create their reality as they see fit. Not caring means not minding, not interfering and not controlling the decisions and the paths of others.When appropriate we offer advice and direction, but all the while we never forget that everyone came here to create the life experience of their choice. So we support them with their choices, and we care about their choices; and that, in-deed, is unconditional love
We know that, ultimately it doesn’t really matter whether a person wakes up and realizes who they really are or not in any particular life experience. Because we know that at the time of their death experience, they’ll wake up and remember who they really are anyway.
We realize that at the time of their death, they’ll realize that life on earth, like every other experience of every other reality, was a dream. We know that they’ll know that because they’ve awoken from their dream, that it was a dream. So they’ll remember who they really are, sure.
Remember that we’re all eternal beings, so the idea of any ending or death is merely an idea or a point of view; it has no relevance outside of the limited perspective of our limited physical human mind.
Even if someone experienced a physical life of pain and suffering,
in whatever form, for 50 or 100 years, it doesn’t matter.
Know that it doesn’t matter because when using the scale of eternity, it’s not even possible to measure the 'time spent' in that life experience. It could be compared to cutting yourself whilst shaving; will you remember that next year or even in an hour from now?
And yes, by knowing and by acting upon what we know and by living that life, we’re on the leading edge of assisting others, through our example, to understand and to know that if they feel inspired to do so, they too can create the life of their choice, their preferred life experience.
Remember that we’re bringing into focus a version of reality which already exists. A reality comprised of consciously aware people creating the life of their dreams. And before long, we’ll look around us and everybody in that reality will have remembered who they really are and what life really is.
'Seek not to change the world, but choose to change your mind about
the world. What you see reflects your thinking. And your thinking but
reflects your choice of what you want to see.' - A Course In Miracles
Knowing about these points is helpful, because by knowing you’ll relax your efforts and your insistence that everyone needs to or must 'get it,' when in truth, we don’t know what they came here to experience and, ultimately, it’s not our responsibility nor should it be our concern!
Our only concerns must be about who we’re being, what we’re doing and how and what we’re creating. And once our life experience is one in which we’re very happy and we’re feeling good for the most part, then and only then do we have something of value to offer another.
That brings us to the end of the best self help advice on how to change your life experience. Study these inspired
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