A Free Self Help Article Question:
What is the Right Way to Visualize My Partner That Will Bring Guaranteed Results?
Self-Love Comes First
To attract a romantic partner, should I imagine specific aspects of him, such as his eye color and hair length, his age, nationality and educational background, in addition to imagining and defining that he must be smart, kind and elegant or not?
Is that much detail allowed or do I only have to focus on one thing?
It’s hard to focus upon one thing only, because I want what I want!
Thanks for your question Vanissa. I moved it to this free self help article Q & A page because it’s concerning visualization and imagination. You’re right to only want what you want and there’s no reason why you can’t have the kind of romantic partner that you really desire.
You’re on the right track by understanding that you must visualize and imagine the kind of partner you want, but there are a couple of things you have to remember when manifesting your desires, especially when it’s concerning people.
Realize that a perfect partner for you already exists and the only thing keeping you apart from him is your own resistance to your idea of meeting him. Your resistance might be in the form of your own self-worth or perhaps it’s in the form of doubting that you’ll meet him.
So the place to start is to make sure that you love you unconditionally and absolutely, for if you don't love yourself then what have you really got to offer the kind of partner that you say you desire?
Once you’ve visualized the kind of person you desire, from a first person perspective, imagine yourself engaged in action with your desired partner whist feeling good about your interaction.
Now believe and trust in your belief that you’ll meet this person. Do not oscillate back and forth between believing you’ll meet him and believing you won’t meet him, which is doubt.
For the best results, it’s better to have a general idea of the kind of person you desire spending time with, because by placing demands in the form of too many specific details, you’re limiting the ability of the Universe to bring your desire to you in the fastest timing.
It’s perfectly OK to desire a tall, blue eyed, extremely handsome man, but would you be all that disappointed if you met a tall, brown eyed, good looking man who’s actually a much better match and who’s perfect for you?
The thing to remember is that although you, through your imagination and positive emotions are activating the vibration of your desire within you, your physical mind cannot see the big picture.
It’s your higher mind or higher self which receives the input or feedback via your imagination and then it goes forth and it will actually bring you a manifestation of your desire that’s even better than you can imagine yourself; unless you’re too detail oriented, doubtful and demanding.
So please go ahead: visualize and imagine with feeling, believe and then forget about it by relaxing and enjoying your life by doing whatever excites you the most in every moment. And then in all probability your romantic partner will materialize into your life in a most surprising way ♥