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Question on How to Deal With
Negative Family and Friends?

by Debs

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How to deal with negative family and friends who don't believe in the law of attraction and deliberate reality creation?

A Self Help Worksheets Question.

I’m fairly new to learning about the law of attraction and manifesting what I want. When I stay focused in the present I do have a sense of peace and a feeling that all is well, but I’m having trouble staying connected, feeling good and believing in this stuff because of my negative family and friends.

The problem is that they constantly remind me of my lack of money while I’m busy trying to manifest wealth and happiness for myself.

I really don’t know how to talk to them anymore without offending them somehow or them driving me mad with their negative attitudes. I want to feel good and am focusing on creating a world of financial abundance for myself in my imagination, but they insist on telling me, at every opportunity, that based upon my current situation I’m being unrealistic!

How can I deal with my negative family and friends without offending them?


Thanks for this question Debs.

Remember that the nature of belief is to bring evidence that any particular belief is the one and only truth, so these kinds of people are not wrong from their particular perspective. Most people blindly believe what they’ve been taught and they never question beliefs that have been handed down to them; instead they cling fast to their beliefs and defend them with a passion, so that’s their truth.

I can talk to some of my friends about these subjects, but not all of them and I never bring these subjects up with associates or strangers, unless asked to do so. Once you’ve reached a certain level of awareness you will never again argue with anyone! There are so many subjects of discussion outside of conscious reality creation that it’s always better to change the subject rather than to argue.

So if someone wants to discuss these subjects with you, but then proceeds to ridicule you or wants to argue, make an effort to change the subject. If that fails tell them directly that you don't wish to discuss these subjects at this time. If they still persist, show them your back. In other words turn about-face 180° and walk away. I’ve done this quite often; you owe it to yourself :)

Realize that it really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. If others are offended, what exactly is it that’s being offended? It's their own negative ego-self, so the upside is that your seemingly negative action of rudely walking away may even help them to begin understanding something about their mind.

Where there is Anger – Love is Not...

Ultimately, by staying centered in love, over time, the perspective and attitudes of your friends and family will either begin to change to a more positive outlook or those people will be absent from your life. This is because you will have succeeded in shifting your energy to the idea of perceiving a different perspective of reality, so everyone and everything in that reality will be different.

However, always remember that it’s you who has to be the catalyst for the shift by your own intention, and by refusing to pay attention to any and all negative people, things and subjects that you no longer wish to experience. You can’t shift to a higher frequency reflection of reality by 'hanging around' at lower frequency levels.

By participating with unaware and unconscious people you'll continue to play their game and be held within that idea of reality. Later on you’ll show your family and friends through your own example the truth of what you now believe, because you’ll know beyond belief and beyond a shadow of a doubt that it’s who you are now.

Keep on keeping on... ♥

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Jul 09, 2015
Very informative!
by: Healleah

This website is about the self help and now you have raised good question that how Deal With Negative Family and Friends? In fact, I'm also looking for the answer to this question for a long time and now finally got the answer in this post which is very satisfactory. I must try to follow the instruction which you mentioned to deal negative family and friends. May be in this way they change their attitude and become positive all the time. Thanks a lot for this great answer!

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All the best with resolving this situation. Perhaps others experiencing similar difficulties will gain something from this Q & A :)

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